Find the Sweet without using Sweetener.

It happens often we tend to look at things and find the icks, mehs and nopes about them before anything else. Judgements happen and we always aren't the nicest. This applies to our own selves as well. Probably more than anything else. 

So for the next space, person or experience you encounter, find the sweet spots. The reason you're there in the first place. 

Don't go adding the sweetener so fast. It may already be sweet enough if you take time to indulge.